I make resolutions
Yeah, I know. It’s nearly March already and I’m only now giving a think to my new years resolutions. I don’t do silly resolutions such as ‘lose weight’: something like that is too vague. Besides, I don’t even know how much I weigh
So here goes:
- Learn to play the guitar. Everyone’s doing it these days — yeah, even my 2-year-old niece — so hopefully it’ll turn into a jam session at some time. But I don’t want to stop at learning how to jam; I want to do math. I was half decent at it in school and I’m sure that I can kick arse if I apply myself a lot more.
- Buy property. I’ve been saying this for the last 5 years but I think this is the year I’ll finally convince myself — I’m still not 100% convinced that it’s the cleverest thing to do — to buy.
- Be more interesting. It can’t be too difficult, eh? But a great part of being interesting really means being interested [in the person you're talking to]. So it’s time to dust off How to win friends and influence people.
- Explore. I’ll start with a trip to Parys.
- Become a hell of a lot more self-aware. It’s difficult to do but this isn’t optional. I used to scoff at people who read The power of now. But that was back in the day and I now realise just how important it is to savour every moment.
- Become big and strong. I’ve been to two boxing classes and I regularly go to yoga classes. I want to have strong legs and a flat tummy. One of the women at the boxing class has the hardest punches I’ve ever experienced. I wanna be like that.
- Learn to construct flawless arguments. This means I need to argue more often. Not all the time, just more often.
- Consume less sugar. It makes me hyper. Go figure. Sure, I could just go to the gym after work but that means I’d have to walk around our office block 3 or 4 times a day just to get rid of all that extra energy until I can get to the gym. Not on.
- I’ll fill my days with more stuff to do. Cause the more you do, the more you can fit in every day.
- I’m gonna [lay]buy experiences, not stuff. So I went to one of my favourite vintage stores at the weekend and I saw this awesome ‘Made in Italy’ leather briefcase. I’m not a lawyer [yet] but it’s an awesome bag. I wanted to lay-buy it until the end of next month. Problem is that I already have an awesome bag; I don’t need yet another one. So I’ll lay-buy myself some experience instead.
- I want to make as many mistakes as possible so that I can learn from them while I’m still young. Then life will be so much easier when I hit my 30s and 40s.
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Good list.
I need to improve my argumentation technique too. I’ve been a perpetual victim of l’esprit d’escalier… sigh.
pattilain
10 Feb 10 at 2:49 PM
It helps to find someone clever with whom to argue. I know a certain somebody who fits that requirement and trust me, it’s helped.
Joy-Mari Cloete
10 Feb 10 at 3:06 PM
Who’s this “certain somebody”, and why don’t you argue with me? Huh?
(In other news, what’s ‘the spirit of escargot’?)
neil
15 Feb 10 at 11:15 PM
Why don’t you argue with me? Huh?
I do argue with you, when I think I know what I’m talking about… I don’t think Hitler is 100% evil; you think he is, or so it seems. You’re unconvinced that using ‘you guys’ is as bad as I think it is. And we’re still undecided on whether Things Fall Apart could’ve made more of a feminist statement, ie, that women should be respected because they’re people and not because they have wombs, and I still need to lookup the properse meaning of ‘aardig’ in my HAT.
Besides, I remember you telling me that we should ‘play nice in person’ and leave the arguing for online.
(l’esprit d’escalier)
Joy-Mari Cloete
16 Feb 10 at 11:17 AM